Dusty Wentworth

One of the hardest parts of my recovery has not been PTSD, fibromyalgia, Functional Neurological Disorder, or even surviving a ruptured brain aneurysm. Those things are visible enough. They can be named, diagnosed, measured, medicated, explained. The real fight has been with masculinity. Not in the abstract, but in my own life, my own body, and my own sense of self. That fight came in two parts. Waking Up in the Future After my aneurysm rupture, I regained consciousness with significant memory loss. Doctors, nurses, and family kept telling me I was fifty years old. In my head, I was still in my mid thirties. I had not aged into this stage of life. I had arrived in it without warning or preparation. It felt less like recovery and more like waking up in the future. If someone had asked me in my thirties whether I would like to time travel fifteen years forward, I would probably have said yes. You expect things to improve. You assume progress. Instead, I woke into a reality th...

The start of 2026 marks an important new chapter for my work with the launch of a brand new YouTube channel, Dusty Wentworth Talks. This channel has been created to build directly on the success of my written blog and to reach a wider, more diverse audience who want thoughtful, honest and challenging conversations about masculinity, disability and modern society. Over recent years, my written work has resonated with readers who are tired of shallow debate and slogans. Many of you have asked for more direct engagement, more discussion and a more accessible way to explore complex ideas. YouTube provides exactly that opportunity. Dusty Wentworth Talks is designed to bring the same depth, integrity and critical thinking you already know, but in a visual and conversational format that suits the way people consume content in 2026. This blog post explains what the channel is about, why it matters, and why subscribing early will ensure you do not miss out as the first videos go live. Why Launc...

The New Year is quietly under way. It is Saturday 3 January 2026, and as I write this, snow is falling steadily outside my window. It is one of those calm, unmistakably beautiful moments that winter sometimes offers. I am thankful that I have nowhere I need to be today. Snow and wheelchairs do not mix well, and what appears peaceful from indoors can very quickly become dangerous outside. This stillness feels symbolic. With the turning of the year has come a change in how I view my life. This is not because circumstances have suddenly become easy, but because something fundamental has shifted. For the first time in a long while, I am not simply surviving. I am beginning to look forward. That shift has been slow, hard-won, and costly. From collapse to survival My journey over the past few years began in October 2023 when I collapsed at home. What followed was not a single event but an extended fight to stay alive. I spent eleven months moving between hospital wards and a spec...

Introduction In an era of rapid social change and deep cultural introspection, the very concept of masculinity is undergoing a profound redefinition. This is not simply a passing trend; it is a fundamental societal recalibration that invites us to examine—and re-imagine—male roles for the contemporary world. What, then, does it truly mean to be a man in the 21st century? Deconstructing the Traditional Paradigm Historically, masculinity was defined by a rigid set of traits—physical prowess, stoicism, dominance, and the provider role. While once functional in pre-industrial societies, these characteristics imposed significant limitations. They stifled emotional expression, discouraged vulnerability, and offered a narrow, often isolating, vision of success. The dawn of the 21st century marked a pivotal shift. Global movements for gender equality, rising mental-health awareness, and the recognition of diverse identities have forced a necessary reassessment. Today, the modern ma...

There are moments in life when everything fractures – your identity, your memories, your body. When you're not just changed, you're remade. For me, that moment was the rupture of a brain aneurysm – a subarachnoid haemorrhage that erased 14 years of my life and reshaped everything I thought I knew about myself. I woke up in a hospital bed unable to walk, unable to remember much of my adult life, and unable to recognise the man I had once been. And so began the slow, gruelling journey of becoming someone new. A Life Interrupted Before the aneurysm, I had been many things – infantry soldier, bodyguard, husband, father, protector. I'd survived war zones, lived with PTSD, managed chronic pain, and kept moving forwards. But none of that prepared me for this. The aneurysm didn't just threaten my life, it rewrote it. Functional Neurological Disorder, fibromyalgia, partial blindness, tremors, and cognitive damage became my daily reality. My body no longer obeyed me. ...

In a world grappling with rapidly evolving gender roles and societal expectations, what does it truly mean to be a man today? Beneath the surface of contemporary discussions about masculinity, a complex web of challenges is impacting men, often silently, and reshaping their experiences. Far from being a monolithic concept, modern masculinity is navigating pressures from cultural norms, media representations, and shifting social landscapes. Let’s delve into some critical issues currently impacting men and the broader conversation around manhood: The Insidious Grip of "Lad Culture" in Universities Often dismissed as nothing more than harmless banter, "lad culture" within university environments is, in reality, a deeply problematic phenomenon. Recent analyses reveal that this culture is underpinned by attitudes that trivialise consent, devalue emotional intelligence, and aggressively promote performative bravado. A 2023 report by the Higher Education Policy...

Introduction: The Forgotten Narrative In the decades following World War II, society began rewriting the role of women with energy, clarity, and purpose. Women were encouraged to express emotion, pursue education, enter the workforce, and challenge tradition. And rightly so. But while we updated the story of womanhood, we failed to rewrite the story of man. To understand why that matters, we must first recognise that masculinity itself is not a biological law—but a cultural narrative. It’s a socially constructed script—shaped by folklore, religion, policy, media, and need. Masculinity has always been moulded by what a society demands of its men at a given moment: protectors in war, providers in peace, stoics in crisis. In essence, masculinity is a kind of cultural folk tale—handed down from generation to generation—not just to define men, but to produce the kind of men society believes it needs. This concept is well supported in academic literature. Sociologist R. W. Connel...