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The Code of Masculinity: A Gentleman’s Guide By Dusty Wentworth

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Introduction In a world that often confuses strength with bravado, the true essence of masculinity lies in principles—values that guide us to be better men. These segments outline the code every man should aspire to live by. Master them, and you'll build a character that stands tall, no matter the storms. Start today. Your future self is depending on you. Confidence Confidence will get you started. But it isn’t loud. It isn’t arrogance. It’s quiet and earned. It begins when you show up for yourself—even when you don’t feel like it. In the Army, I learned that even if your uniform wasn’t perfect, you stood tall. You dared the world to find fault. That’s confidence in its early form. Confidence is a skill. Build it by reading, learning, talking, trying, failing, and trying again. Push your boundaries. Failure isn’t the enemy—it’s the teacher. The strongest men have failed more times than most people have even tried. It’s about showing up—even when doubt whispers in your e...

The Left-Behind Man: How We Updated Womanhood But Forgot Masculinity

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Introduction: The Forgotten Narrative In the decades following World War II, society began rewriting the role of women with energy, clarity, and purpose. Women were encouraged to express emotion, pursue education, enter the workforce, and challenge tradition. And rightly so. But while we updated the story of womanhood, we failed to rewrite the story of man. To understand why that matters, we must first recognise that masculinity itself is not a biological law—but a cultural narrative. It’s a socially constructed script—shaped by folklore, religion, policy, media, and need. Masculinity has always been moulded by what a society demands of its men at a given moment: protectors in war, providers in peace, stoics in crisis. In essence, masculinity is a kind of cultural folk tale—handed down from generation to generation—not just to define men, but to produce the kind of men society believes it needs. This concept is well supported in academic literature. Sociologist R. W. Connel...