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Refining the Code: A Gentleman’s Evolution for Today By Dusty Wentworth, with reflections from Quinn Cavendish

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There’s a reason Harvey Specter’s image commands silence. The suit. The piercing stare. The unshakeable confidence.   But his image isn’t just about style—it’s a symbol of something we’ve longed to reclaim: control, dominance, presence. For many modern men, that image is intoxicating—a glimpse of power, certainty, and purpose. But image alone doesn’t define a man. And when the spotlight fades, a deeper question persists: **Who is the gentleman when no one’s watching?** **Dusty:** I’ve always believed that honour, control, and discipline aren’t optional—they’re essential. The Code I was taught was a foundation—a steady ground when the world shifts beneath your feet. It taught me to rise early, to carry weight without complaint, to lead without seeking applause. **Quinn:** And yet, the world has shifted. Today’s men are asked not only to lead—but to listen. To regulate, to feel, to serve. Presence alone isn’t enough. Now, it must be paired with peace. Strength is adm...